School Subjects in Chinese/English

Hello everyone,

I was talking with a friend, and she asked me about my favorite and not favorite school subjects at that time.

(Which was History and Art by the way).

Then I found myself not knowing all the subjects in Chinese (She is a Chinese friend).

So, here they are :)

Scholl subjects:

Subject Chinese Pinyin
Chemistry 化学 Huàxué
Physics 物理 Wùlǐ
Science 科学 Kēxué
Math 数学 Shùxué
Physical Education 体育 Tǐyù
Art 美术 Měishù
Music 音乐 Yīnyuè
Language 语文 Yǔwén
English 英语 Yīngyǔ
History 历史 Lìshǐ
Geography 地理学 Dìlǐ xué

I hope you enjoyed it!

Kyle.

Noise pollution in Brussels

 Hi, folks. Here is Kyle, your favorite writer of all time.

(Pretentious? no, not at all, playful I would say :) )


I've been living in Brussels, Belgium, for almost a year and have some thoughts about the noise pollution in this place.


Where do I start?


Well, I think I should give some references from places where I have lived: São Paulo (Brazil), Montreal (Canada), Cairo (Egypt), and Dubai (UAE). 


From now on, you won't think I am just a country boy complaining about living in a big city. (Because I've already lived in a couple of them (And some are really noisy).


I know this post is about Brussels, but first, I would like to talk a little about São Paulo and Cairo (Since they are the worst ones, we will build our base from them).


São Paulo is kind of noisy. I say "kind" because it is not as much as it could be due to the number of vehicles and people. Most of the noise is because buses and motorcycles are noisier there when we compare them with first-world countries (much more, to be honest). But what really made this a problem is the lack of good windows. Yes, windows there are not made to handle any kind of noise, in their homes especially. Most of them only have a single thin glass pane (And two thin aluminum panes behind the glass one). So, all the noise will get in.


So, if you are not living in a really isolated area, you will have this background noise of vehicles.


Then, we have Cairo in Egypt. Well, if you ever had this city as a travel destination, you probably got surprised by the city-center noise caused by car horns. Yes, that place is insane in this sense. Depending on where you were staying, you probably, faced yourself using earplugs to get some sleep.


Ok, now, let's move to Brussels.


During this year, I've been hanging out in "several" places in the city, and I must say the town appears to be silent in several parts, however, that are some spots that are a living hell.


Where?


Well, I work in an office located in front of Place Stephanie (Avenue Louise) and live in a neighborhood called Saint-Gilles


And those places are hell.


Sorry, but they are.


Why?


Well, where do we start?

Let's talk a little about the sirens.


In big cities, especially downtown, it is normal to hear sirens. After all, a lot of people, a lot of trouble, and as a consequence, you will have this constant need for ambulances and police cars opening all their way to save and rescue. Oh, public service....how important you are in our lives...


But here in Brussels, this thing is on a whole new level.


The sirens


To start:


1) The sound level.

Loud, really, over too loud. We know that sirens are supposed to be noisy, but here it is at a much higher level. It is so strong. Several times you feel like they are already close to you; however, they are really far (You can't even see them for a long time until they get where you are).

And then, when they pass close to you, you feel like this massive wall of sound is getting inside your ears. Imagine a sonic drill getting inside your brain. Yes, that's the feeling you get sometimes.


2) How close do they pass to you

Besides this, they pass really close. Sometimes 3-5 feet from you (1 meter and a half). That is mainly caused by how the city is designed. 


Brussels feels like someone has dropped this shrinking liquor all over it, making you feel like you are in a miniature city. So, the width of streets is reduced compared to other Big European cities. 

You can check it without going that far. Take a walk in Lille, France, then you will see what I am talking about.


So, as a consequence, sirens will pass much closer to you rather than in other big cities.


3) They don't drive fast. 

No, most of the time, they drive like snails.

(And because of it, I question myself if there is an emergency indeed). 


4) They don't turn it off when there are people nearby

For me, that is the most outrageous thing. 

Usually, Sirens, when passing on those streets where people are so close, turn themselves down or off (Because they know how bothering and even dangerous it can be to hurt someone's ears). However, they don't give a damn here if you are just 2 feet from them. 


Really, I've never seen something like this.


If you go to Paris, for example, you will see that the sirens are much less intense (Compared to Brussels), and they turn it down when they are close to pedestrians. (And Paris is much bigger than Brussels).


5) How often can you hear a siren in Brussels?

That's the gold star of our arguments. If you are in the right spot, you can easily have it 20 times per day. (I am not kidding or exaggerating; you can count if you want, e.g., At the begging of Avenue Louise or near Albert station).


Yeah, for me, all of that is quite insane. The volume, the frequency, how close and slow they pass to you.


Now, my second favorite. The trams.


Oh boy, where do I start?


Probably you see them as innocent public non-pollutant vehicles. But the fact is, someone gave a weapon to the devil here.


1) How loud it is

They honk.

And honk hard.


Their horns are not like something gentle and nice. They are more like a giant cathedral beel tolling 3 feet from you (1,2 meters). 


One day I measured how strong it was, reaching 97 Db! Do you know how loud it is? It is as potent as a rock concert. You may only find that rock concert is louder because the music plays constantly; however, if you could cut it down to the size of a tram horn, then you would hear as loud as (reaching the same distance).


And since Brussels is a city in miniature, you can hear it so loud inside your home. (It is a city where most of the buildings in the center have stores on the ground floor and regular apartments on the floors above)


So, if you live in one of those apartments, you get freaking annoying noise inside your home several times a day.


Obs: The older tram versions don't have this loud horn. Just the most modern ones (So instead of improving, it got worse). Fun fact.


2) How do they use the horns.

Yes, again, we have the golden start argument.

Despite how loud it is, everything falls apart when it comes to how they use it on a daily basis. 


Out of the blue and for no good reason.


Yep, that's the phrase to describe it.


Let me give some examples:

  • Just after stopping the tram (Why would you horn if you are not moving)?
  • In the underground, Let me explain it. Here they have some tram lines that are underground: exactly like subways. So, there is no car, traffic, or pedestrians crossing by. So why the hell would they horn in a place like that? (Imagine a subway honking every time it leaves the station; Does it make sense? Not to me). 
  • When there is no one (Car or pedestrian) crossing the street. 


So, many and several bad examples of misusage.


I've already asked myself why do they do this?

  • For security?  Well, buses drive equally on the streets, and they don't honk every time they leave a bus stop; Let's confess that it is quite hard not to notice a 50-60 feet caterpillar in your way (18m). Unless you are blind...hold on...you would be driving in this case. So, again, that's not a good reason.
  • To display this portrait that Brussels, as the capital of Europe, show concern to their citizens by applying every security measure they can? I think it is nice that, as long as you don't drive people crazy or deaf to do this.
  • To be mean? Well, sometimes, yes. I've already witnessed some particular situations in that I could notice that.
  • Because they can? Yes. It seems that since they can, they do. Simply like that.
  • Because they want to make people lose their hearing sensitivity? Hahaha, who knows? But the interesting fact is a lot of people that live here for many hear speak loudly. (Could it be related? Maybe)
  • Are they aware of how upsetting and hurtful it is? Hard to say how many, but I think lots of them are probably aware, I think. But I still think that some of them are not that aware (especially because you don't hear that loud inside)


Conclusion

At the end of the day, what really gets me is how things designed for security and public service delivery are being so badly used in this city. 

Not only, it is also unnecessarily loud, which could be easily reduced 20-30 Db to do the same job, as it is used with no respect towards the citizens.


The whole thing doesn't make any sense from A to Z. 


A total lack of good sense and respect.


Obs: I must reinforce that it is not in everywhere in the city. However, in several spots, you will have it.


Ok, that's it for today!


À la prochaine!


À revoir.


Kyle.

My thoughts on Speed Dating (in Belgium)

Yes, I went to a speed dating event.


How was it? Well, for the record, it turned out to be the opposite of what I thought (in every sense). 

 

Ok, let's start.


It had been four months that I had been living in Belgium, and I knew no one here. So, "Dating" in bulk didn't seem like a bad idea.


So, it starts with me getting there 45 minutes earlier than the appointed time (yeah, I did that because I misread it in the confirmation email). 


Anyways.


At check-in, they immediately separate men and women in different rooms. The girls were sent directly to the main event room while the guys waited in a separate one (in this case, at a big bot near the bar).


So, after a few minutes of small talk with the guys, the organizer explains the rules and asks you to go to the event room upstairs. 


Here are some facts and rules:

  • When you check in, they give you two "Drinking tickets". (You can have two "regular" drinks or a more elaborated one).
  • Each date is 7 minutes. 
  • They give you a pen and paper to take notes about your dates
  • After finishing the speed dating, a link will be sent to your email where you can select the people that you liked.
  • If the person you chose in the "match form" matches you, then your contact data will be shared between you two.


(Also, she told us that were 10 men and 8 women)

In the men's section, I was the only expat. On the women's side, just 3-4 expats (However, most of them have been here for a long time, ex: one Italian girl for 10 years).


Anyway, back to the subject.


After explaining everything, the organizer sends you straight to the event room and lets you choose a random table to start your date (Which potentially may have a love of your life seat there).


And then, the game starts...


You go one by one and talk a little about yourself, ask questions, try to be charismatic and show interest. In short, you give your best.


In the beginning, I was really concerned about awkwardness in the middle of the conversations and getting dull. However, it didn't happen. All the dates went smoothly, and all the girls were lovely.


So, in this sense, it was quite pleasant to chat with all of them. 


However, whenever I left a table, I always had the impression that I would have to signal or say something to show that I would like to see that person again on a future date. It is not some sort of an objective rule; however, I felt that as a more subjective thing of the culture. (Nevertheless, I didn't know how to do it without sending the message "I was granted"). So I would say goodbye politely and move to the next table, but I felt that some girls got the following message from me "I am in a rush to leave here because I don't want to continue this with you". But I never left in a rush or in an inappropriate way. Just would say goodbye and leave.

But did you know I moved to the next table when the bell ring also? Just because of this 

particular little thing called "respect". You see, when your time is up, a bell rings, telling you that you need to move on. So, disrespecting this is not only wrong but also shows that you don't give a damn about other people's time. Respecting it is the minimum respect you can offer to other candidates. Instead of getting stuck at a table and consuming someone else time.


And talking about moving on when the bell rang, there was this "gentleman" next to me that was always hanging at every table he went, not allowing me to properly "unplug" from my previous table nor letting me start in the next one. Because apparently, he was having this "amazing" and unique chat that he couldn't simply leave (With every girl at every table). Really, the guy seemed like a nail hit by a hammer in every chair he sat in. (Sometimes I felt like I would need a hammer's claw to unpin him)


Despite that, half of the event passed, then we had a pause where we could go to the toilet, get a new drink, cool off, and so on. 


But from that on, things started to get weird…by becoming too social...

Yes, you read it correctly.


Everyone started to talk to everyone. Girls to the guys, guys to the girls. Like it was a normal event where people were simply inside a room and talking to each other, like a 10th-year school gathering, for example).

I don't know you, but I don't want to share information about my dates with the other candidates. Also, you don't want your "selected one" to make any wrong conclusions about seeing you chatting joyfully with another girl (However you are just talking to this girl because you are being polite and social.


Besides the fact it was a dating event. It is weird to have people hanging out as if it had not crossed their minds that it was such an event (But like a gathering event instead).


It was so weird...


But, getting back to the subject


After the break, we had to go back to speed dating to finish the rounds. 


And we did it.

And then, we called for a night?


Oh boy, 

No, not at all.


Because apparently, people decided that it would be a great idea to hang out after the event. And from this point on, I couldn't understand a thing. 


Wouldn't you feel embarrassed enough to hang out with people you have just dated for 7 minutes? (Considering that lots of them you didn't like that much). 


Besides, sharing too much information.


How?

Let me show you.


Girls talking to girls about the guys, guys talking to guys about the girls, and why on earth would I like to know who else is interested in someone I like? Why would I want to know about someone I like be interested in someone else?


After the event, I discovered that some girls made this "self-support" group on WhatsApp just "brief" about their dates. Although it seems perfectly natural, if you take a closer look, you will find out that it is the worst thing ever.


Imagine for a second that you are one of the girls in the group that matched someone, and then you find that he also matched with someone else. Or that one of your friends starts to say how interested she is in your match (Because she matched him too). However, it could easily make you want to discard the person because she is so into him and you both didn't have that big click, despite you liking him). Or what about if your friend starts to bad-mouth someone that you matched? Even she is bad-mouthing him on purpose to make you want to discard the person. (Again, we never know what are people's intentions)


Do you see it? Nothing good can come out of it….


Well, you might say that at least they have this self-support group where you can cope and vent all your frustrations.

(Come on, grow up and learn how to deal with that, please…)


And probably, the guys might have done the same. (But I am not sure, since I didn't want to get that social, haha).


After all that, I concluded that speed dating in Belgium wasn't all about finding a date but also about making new friends. (Apparently). 


To be honest, It could have kind of jeopardized me, in fact. Because one girl matched me and started to tell the others how much "we connected". However, one girl that I indeed had a great chat with was on this self-support group. So, maybe because of that, she didn't put a match with me. After all, I supposedly had this great connection with this other girl (according to her), so why would she waste her time with me?


In the end, I was just interested in two. But just got one match. And it was through this match I got all that information about the WhatsApp group.


Also, through her, I found out that none of the girls in that group matched with someone.


So, at the end of it, I just got 1 match, which turned out not to be that good.


But I got some valuable information about it and a couple of lessons learned.

  • Don't drink any alcoholic drinks (Because the amount of relaxation that you might get would not compensate for the amount of sharpness that you lose). I didn't have any alcoholic drinks, and I was glad I didn't. Because I realized how important it is to keep your mind sharp to properly handle all the talking. (which is kind of fatiguing). 
  • Be normal. By that, I mean talking normally and on normal topics. They all were friendly, so you can hold onto a normal conversation. Look normal and be normal 
  • If there is any pause between the rounds, don't spend your time socializing with anyone. Just go to the bathroom or go outside and play on your phone (Simply because you can get some misleading information).
  • Just select the people that you really like. (This seems pretty obvious, but sometimes we find ourselves in a position where we want to have at least one person to match us, or we are just curious to know how many people liked us. However, it is a major mistake because if you match someone you are not really into, then you will have to deal with someone who probably thinks you both had this amazing connection. And then it can be a real pain in the ass to get rid of later.
  • After finishing off, leave the place so you don't fall into the temptation of getting additional information that could easily mislead you. (If I may suggest, don't get anyone's contact because this "new friend" may tell something about you to your matches or to other participants that will finally reach your matches…and then that could completely screw you up). It seems a little bit paranoid, but it certainly can happen.

So, that's it!


I hope you enjoyed it!!!

See you!


Kyle.


C