I will start with an observation: This blog must have a theme because every day, I change topics.
Today we will talk about inconvenient people. Especially those who try to ruin your plan when you are trying to hit on someone.
Yeah, you read that correctly.
I must give a special thanks to those people because if it weren't for them, I wouldn't have this post today.
Well, inconvenient people are everywhere and manifest in many forms.
However, one particular type that I hate are those who see that you are hitting on someone and decide to show up and be part of the conversation.
Isn't that horrible? Have ever that happened to you?
Picture this scenario: You are there getting along with this hot person and then this "friend" simply shows up, tries to the conversation and just doesn't leave.
It happened to me a couple of times.
Ok, you may say
- That person doesn't know he is being inconvenient
Well, some of them don't. However, some know that pretty well.
Somehow these people are just using a tactic that I would like to baptize as "Opposite Wingman".
An opposite wingman is well known for using the friendship/acquittance that they have with you to approach the person you are talking to. So, that's why it is called "Opposite Wingman", because they use you as their "Wingman" (That is a guy that is supposed to help you to have someone, but, they use you to have that someone instead).
In fact, they are cowards that don't have the courage/guts to approach that person by themselves and are utterly jealous of those who have the manners to do that.
So anytime he sees you having some success with someone, they are filled with instantaneous jealousy and will jump immediately in the middle of the conversation just to feel what you're feeling.
Depending on the person, he/she is just doing that to blow the whole thing away (As they were desperately in love with that person, so they couldn't ever allow you to have her/him).
The most incredible about it is how shameless they are! They feel no shame about using your friendship to do that, nor ruining the thing for you.
It is amazing how that has already happened to me:
You are hitting off with someone; then all those guys come out from nothing (like they were materialized) trying to ruin the thing (And the most amazing thing, you never see them talking to that person before, but suddenly there they are!)
Oh boy, how I do hate it...
Anyway, that's an excellent way to spot if someone is truly your friend or not. Because it must be a real jerk for showing up like that or just a true friend (A real gentleman) to leave you there having your time.
So, that's it.
I hope you liked it.
See you in the next post!
À la prochaine!
Au revoir!
Kyle.
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